If you struggle in your relationship, give these well-tested tips a go. There’s nothing new here; most of us do these things in the first couple of months in a new relationship. But after we settle into a routine, things slowly become automatic, we put less effort into things, and unfortunately, our relationship suffers.
Here are four straightforward ideas for men who want to bring the fire back into their relationship and feel like those first few months again. Remember, just like with everything else in life, what you put in, you will get out.
1. Take Charge
Lead the way in planning dates and surprises. Instead of asking where she wants to go, take her on a spontaneous adventure or book a surprise dinner reservation. Just make sure to give her plenty of heads-up so she can get ready – after all, good things take time. 👍😀
2. Be the Provider
Women find it very attractive when we step up and pay at the restaurant or the bar. This simple step makes her feel safe and cared for. Show her that you’ve got her back and that you’re prioritising her comfort.
3. Make Decisions
This is a big one for most men. Yes, my friend, when the bin is full, it needs to be taken out. Also, the dishwasher needs to be emptied. Don’t ask her endless questions about obvious things. Take the lead, show up as a man! Your decisiveness breeds confidence and reassurance.
4. And More Surprises
Leave some cute notes, simple drawings, or plan a spontaneous date night. Keep her on her toes and make her feel special.
Bonus Tip: Schedule Weekly Date Nights
Yes, SCHEDULE weekly date nights with your partner. It is crucial to spend regular time together as a couple away from “to-do lists,” kids, and all of your commitments.
Final Thoughts
With these four simple and actionable steps, you’ll deepen your emotional connection and strengthen your bond. Don’t rush it or try to do it all at once. Just choose one or two. Consistency is 🔑.
Remember, it’s the masculine moves and consistent efforts that build a rock-solid relationship. Give these a crack and let me know how it went.
